Your Mum is very lucky to have you by her side. I was diagnosed with FFA three years ago. Can I ask you how old your Mum is? How advanced is the FFA? Has she been prescribed treatment (hydroxychloroquine, steroid scalp application, steroid injections etc)? What kind of hairstyle does she have? I have lost hair around my ear, up and over to the other ear, about 2-3cm receeding. Thanks to a fabulous hairdresser, if I didn't tell you I had FFA you would never guess (unless it's a windy day and I start to get a bit paranoid :) ). My hairstyle is a short bob with full fringe. My fringe has thinned but with the help of Aveda thickening tonic, which I spray onto my fringe before I blow dry it, again it's not that nocieable to those who are not in the know. My family, and close friends, all know about my FFA. Has you Mum got close girlfriends she can talk to? Sometimes it is easier to talk to friends rather than family members. My husband and daughter are very, very supportive. I looked into getting a hair replacement system from Hair Solved, who have a clinic where I live. However, despite the fact that I thought it was a good system, I felt my hair loss wasn't bad enough go warrant going to the time, not to mention the expense, of it (visiting every six weeks to have it tightened etc). I've also bought a hairpiece (fringe) and think it looks hideous (from one of those hair extensions shops). However, there is a Trevor Sorbie salon where I live who are part of his "My New Hair" network - they specialise in supplying and fitting of very good wigs. I may at some point in the future visit them to see if they can supply my with a fringe, just to give me a bit more confidence when I go on nights out. They cut and colour the hairpiece to a perfect match to your hair and style. I have my hair cut and roots touched up every six weeks (I have dyed blonde hair). I was a bit worried at first about dying my hair but my consultant (who is a leading expert on FFA) assured me that it would do no harm whatsoever. Three years later my hair loss hasn't got any worse, apart from a tiny bit at one temple. It might be worthwhile seeing if he has a salon near where your Mum lives. Although I do get upset sometimes they are very few and far between now. I do a lot of exericise and at first I worried that my hairloss would be more apparent during these sessions but I discovered that a hairband worked perfectly and concealing it and gave me the confidence to carry on as I have always done.
If your Mum has recently been diagnosed then, like me and no doubt like the vast majority of people with hair loss, it takes a while to accept what it happening. With FFA you know that your hair will never grow back, once it's gone, it's gone. I actually found that easier to cope with than other forms of alopecia where you lose your hair, go through the relief of it growing back only to hit despair when it falls out again...I couldn't go through that.
I think just keep supporting your Mum the way you have obviously been doing. Look into Trevor Sorbie salons for a good, professional fitted, hairpiece. A great hairdresser is a blessing so hopefully your Mum has one too. Hair products, like Aveda who have a range of hair thickening products, can also help with confidence. With me, it was all about losing confidence in myself so I was, and still am, extremely grateful to my loved ones for the continuous support and confidence boosting comments that they give me.
Wishing you, and your Mum, all the best.